36 Gun Milan: Shaadi Ke Liye Kitne Gun Milne Chahiye?
By Narinder, Vedic astrologer · Updated · 6 min read
Short mein
- Gun milan 8 koot ka system hai — kul 36 points.
- 18 se kam gun ho toh traditional roop se rishta mana kiya jaata hai; 18+ par aage dekha jaata hai.
- Nadi dosh (8 mein 0) aur Bhakoot dosh (7 mein 0) total score se zyada important maane jaate hain — aur dono ke cancellation niyam bhi hain.
- 30 gun wali jodi bhi galat ho sakti hai aur 20 gun wali bhi sahi — isliye poori kundli dekhna zaroori hai.
Is lekh mein
Shaadi ke liye 36 mein se kam se kam 18 gun milna traditional roop se zaroori maana jaata hai. 18–24 gun theek, 25–32 achhe aur 32 se upar bahut achhe maane jaate hain. Lekin sirf total score kaafi nahi — Nadi (8) aur Bhakoot (7) koot mein 0 aaye toh, aur dono kundliyon ka 7th house, Mangal aur dasha bhi dekhna zaroori hai.
Rishte ki baat aage badhte hi sabse pehla sawal hota hai: "Kitne gun mile?" Aur jaise hi number aata hai — 16, 22 ya 31 — parivaar wahi number dekh kar faisla kar leta hai. Is guide mein samjhiye ki yeh 36 gun hote kya hain, har koot kya dekhta hai, aur number ke peeche kya chhupa hota hai.
Gun Milan Kya Hai?
Gun milan (ashtakoot milan) mein ladka aur ladki ke janam nakshatra aur Chandra rashi ko milaya jaata hai. Isme 8 koot hote hain, aur har koot ke fixed points hote hain. Sabka jod 36 hota hai. North India mein yahi system sabse zyada use hota hai.
8 Koot Aur Unke Points
| Koot | Max points | Kya dekhta hai |
|---|---|---|
| Varna | 1 | Soch aur aham ka taal-mel |
| Vashya | 2 | Aapsi aakarshan aur kaun kise prabhavit karta hai |
| Tara | 3 | Bhagya aur sehat ka taal-mel |
| Yoni | 4 | Shaaririk aur swabhavik compatibility |
| Graha Maitri | 5 | Dono ki Chandra rashi ke swamiyon ki dosti — mental bonding |
| Gana | 6 | Swabhav: Dev, Manushya ya Rakshas |
| Bhakoot | 7 | Rashiyon ka aapsi sambandh — parivaar, dhan, prem |
| Nadi | 8 | Sehat aur santaan se juda — sabse zyada wazan |
Dhyaan dein: points neeche se upar badhte hain. Isliye 2–3 bade koot (Graha Maitri, Gana, Bhakoot, Nadi) poore score ka zyada hissa tay karte hain.
Kitne Gun Milne Chahiye?
| Gun | Traditional raay |
|---|---|
| 18 se kam | Aam taur par mana — jab tak koi khaas parihar na ho |
| 18–24 | Theek — baaki kundli dekh kar faisla |
| 25–32 | Achha milan |
| 32–36 | Bahut achha |
Lekin yahi galti sabse zyada hoti hai: log sirf total dekhte hain. Ek 28 gun wali jodi jisme Nadi 0 hai, kai astrologer turant aage nahi badhaate — jab tak cancellation na ho. Wahin 20 gun wali jodi jisme Nadi aur Bhakoot poore hain, aksar achhi maani jaati hai.
Ek Example Se Samjhein
Yeh ek example score hai (asli jodi nahi):
| Koot | Mile | Max |
|---|---|---|
| Varna | 1 | 1 |
| Vashya | 2 | 2 |
| Tara | 1.5 | 3 |
| Yoni | 3 | 4 |
| Graha Maitri | 4 | 5 |
| Gana | 6 | 6 |
| Bhakoot | 0 | 7 |
| Nadi | 8 | 8 |
| Total | 25.5 | 36 |
25.5 "achha" lagta hai — lekin Bhakoot 0 hai. Ab astrologer dekhega: kya dono rashiyon ke swami ek hi grah hain ya aapas mein mitra hain? Agar haan, toh Bhakoot dosh cancel maana jaata hai aur jodi achhi hai. Agar nahi, toh 7th house, Mangal aur dasha ko aur dhyaan se dekha jaata hai. Yahi farak hai "score" aur "reading" mein.
Nadi Dosh Aur Bhakoot Dosh
Nadi dosh
Jab dono ki nadi same ho (Aadi, Madhya ya Antya), toh Nadi mein 0 gun milte hain — ise Nadi dosh kehte hain. Paramparik roop se ise sehat aur santaan se joda jaata hai. Kuch cancellation sthitiyan maani jaati hain — jaise dono ki rashi same par nakshatra alag ho, ya nakshatra same par rashi alag ho. Yeh kundli dekh kar hi confirm kiya jaata hai.
Bhakoot dosh
Jab dono rashiyan ek-doosre se 2-12, 6-8 ya 5-9 ki sthiti mein hon, toh Bhakoot mein 0 aate hain. Aam parihar: dono rashiyon ka swami ek hi grah ho, ya swami aapas mein mitra hon.
Gun Milan Ke Baad Kya Dekhna Zaroori Hai?
Gun milan sirf Chandra par based hai. Ek poori kundli matching mein yeh bhi dekha jaata hai:
- Manglik dosh dono kundliyon mein — padhein Manglik Dosh Kya Hai?
- Dono ka 7th house aur 7th lord
- Navamsa (D9) chart — vivah ka sabse important divisional chart
- Chal rahi dasha — shaadi ka samay; padhein Shaadi Kab Hogi?
- Dono ki aayu, sehat aur career ke sanket
Myths Jo Achhe Rishte Rok Dete Hain
- "36 mein 36 mile toh shaadi perfect hogi." Score achha hona achhi baat hai, par perfect shaadi kundli se nahi, samajh aur mehnat se banti hai.
- "17.5 gun = rishta bilkul nahi." Parihar aur baaki kundli dekhe bina aisa kehna jaldbaazi hai.
- "App ne score de diya, ab astrologer ki zaroorat nahi." Apps sirf ganit karte hain; cancellation, Mangal aur D9 ka judaav nahi dekhte.
- "Love marriage mein gun milan ka matlab nahi." Gun milan pe rishta todna zaroori nahi, lekin taal-mel ke kamzor points pehle se jaan lena faayde ka hai.
Rishta Pakka Karne Se Pehle
Shaadi ka season aate hi pandit aur muhurat dono jaldi book ho jaate hain. Isliye families milne se pehle hi dono kundliyon ka milan karwa lein — taaki faisla score ke darr se nahi, poori jaankari se ho. Poori matching ke liye dekhein Kundli Matching, ya seedha 1:1 session book karein.
Aksar Pooche Jaane Wale Sawal
Shaadi ke liye kitne gun milne chahiye?
Kya 18 se kam gun mein shaadi ho sakti hai?
Nadi dosh kya hota hai?
Bhakoot dosh kab cancel hota hai?
Kya online gun milan sahi hota hai?
Bina birth time ke gun milan ho sakta hai?
By Narinder
Vedic astrologer, practising since 2016 — kundli reading, matching, vastu, numerology, gemstones, remedies and dowsing healing, online by phone or Zoom. Guidance only; see our disclaimer.
